A surgeon might save your life someday, but vanity and hasty decisions can bite baby boomers in the butt!
A surgery is elective in my book unless its purpose is to save your life, or prevents you from becoming deformed or crippled, or stop terrible pain.
And, unless someone is using a scalpel to remove a splinter, there is no such thing as minor surgery.
Like most of us, my opinions are based on my life experience. I do not claim to be qualified to give professional medical advice. We each need to make our own decisions. It is not up to the doctor – it is up to you because you are the one who must live with the consequences – good or bad. Continue reading “Baby Boomers Beware – Eight Surgery Tips”
Imagine you have a Top 10 List of things you dreamed about doing someday. Now you look at the list and decide it is too late or for some reason a dream can no longer be realized.
Way before the phrase Bucket List was coined I had the dream to dance with Fred Astaire. I used to dance around my living room as a teenager while I watched Fred and Ginger in a late night movie.
It was a pie in the sky dream to begin with, but hey, what are dreams about? Fred died. So there goes the dream. Or, so I thought at the time.
About a year ago, I took up ballroom dancing. I had always been passionate about dancing and really loved it — despite the fact that I had done very little of it. Dancing just puts a smile in my heart. Very quickly I had a de ja vu moment and realized that Johnny Francoviglia, my young dance teacher was my new Fred Astaire.
Johnny is a brilliant dance teacher and gave me the confidence to dance in a Holiday Showcase with him at Overland Park Ballroom in Kansas City.
Despite my anxiety and jitters, I loved every minute of it! I had fulfilled a dream that I thought was no longer possible. I was living life to the fullest.
Maybe you would like to write a bestseller, visit the Vatican, or learn how to sail. What about chasing a tornado? Consider whatever your heart desires.
So, I really want to hear — What’s on Your Bucket List? Is there something that you can do, even in a modified way that will fulfill a long-held dream?
Please scroll down and share your thoughts and dreams with us in the reply box below. You may fuel the furnace of hope for someone else’s dream.
A legacy for the rich and famous can very different from the average person. But, no matter who you are, you can leave a lasting impression that will be remembered by those whose lives you have touched. Continue reading “Leaving a Legacy That Lasts”
If you just want the bottom line about the online dating lessons, go to the end of the post. But this online dating story is worth the read. Email and text excerpts that follow are authentic actual conversations (including misspellings) saved on my computer and cell phone.
The Last Love of Mark Rossi!
Less than 24 hours after I had put my online profile on the online dating website, Match.com, I was pleasantly surprised to get a message from Mark Rossi — age 62 (five years younger than me — could I handle being a cougar?). Mark’s profile showed him to be Italian/American, a widower, a successful international businessman and very good-looking! Continue reading “5 Lessons to Learn from My First Online Dating Encounter”
Let’s reflect on your retirement status. How do you spend your day? What motivates you to get up in the morning? What do you look forward to with excitement?
If you have trouble getting off the couch or if most of your day is spent fulfilling obligations placed on you — rather than planned by you; if you don’t have something that really gets you excited — maybe it is time for to reassessment what retirement means for you.
There were so many years I spent my energy working my butt off to support myself, raise children, etc. Crap, I started working for a paycheck when I was twelve years old and kept on going. It seemed there was never enough time for everything. There were always competing obligations, especially during the time I was a single working mom. I so much looked forward to a time when I could do whatever I damn well pleased. Well, now I can! What a luxury!
Have you ever heard of a “seenager”? The little verse below put a smile on my face when it showed up in my inbox one morning. It speaks to Continue reading “Remarkable Retirement Doesn’t Just Happen”
Grief is such a strange emotion and can pop up when we least expect it. Have you ever lost someone through divorce or death? Have you ever had a regret — something you looked back on and wished you could change?
Yes, most of us can probably relate to experiencing of grief. The voice of a good friend comes into my mind right now. She says: “STOP. You can’t go back. Dwelling on it is fruitless. You need to look at today and tomorrow and what you can do now!”
Yesterday, I talked a little about online dating. Now, I would like to back up a step and talk about the loss that many of us feel. The older we get, the more loved ones we lose. It is the way things are.
What if you are not ready to move on? And how do you know if you are ready to date again? Will you ever be able to find the loving relationship you had before? I ask this, because I truly believe Continue reading “A Fool Will Lose Tomorrow Reaching Back for Yesterday!”
Senior dating online may be a stretch for some of us, but consider the benefits. Do you let age put unnecessary restrictions on you? Some days I feel like I am seventeen. Other days I don’t. Can baby boomers and other seniors find love again? Why not?
“I think people would live a bit longer if they didn’t know how old they were. Age puts restrictions on things.” Karl Pilkington
One month after we both lost our respective spouses, I had a phone conversation with an old family friend. It went something like this:
“So, Harry, how did it happen that we have come to this point in our lives and find ourselves alone, without a partner?
It was extremely difficult for Harry to accept that his wife of 40 years was gone. Though she was in his heart and he talked with her privately, Ann would never be a part of his every day life again. He had lost her rather quickly — just four short months from diagnosis to death.
I lost my husband after a long ten-year battle with cancer. There is really no way of losing a loved one that equips us to deal with the loss or know how to pick up the pieces.
I could not believe it when, in time, we started talking about finding new mates. Wondering whether senior online dating was a viable option, we talked. Dating again, at our age? Continue reading “Online Dating at My Age? Absolutely!”